Monday, September 12, 2011

Missionary Author... how did that happen?


Many days I am in disbelief with my life. I don’t know what is more surprising… moving to Mozambique (essentially) or publishing a book?

I’ve been phasing out of my role with U.S. Operations and started preparing to head back to Mozambique as a full-time Missionary. I don’t know about you, but when I hear the term Missionary my mind is flooded with thoughts. Some negative and some positive, but I don’t really feel like many of those thoughts describe me.

I’m still getting used to the idea of being an author. When I think of authors I think of people that can spell and have a large vocabulary. Neither are my strong suit =) I was thinking the other day how hard English class was for me in High School, but then I remember that the one thing I was good at was descriptive writing… who knew all these years later I would use my descriptive writing skills to publish a book!?!

As far as my plans for the future, I’m planning to head back to Mozambique for Christmas and stay for another 3 months. I know when most people become Missionaries they go into the field for at least a year… well as usual I do things different. I’m still making the year long commitment, but I really feel like I’m being called to go for a few months and then come back to the States for a few months to share how TDP is changing lives of people in Mozambique. Not just to report back but to really give supporters an idea of who lives and works at our Center.

I’m also really excited to get to visit Ponta de Oruo, Mozambique! The government has given The Dream Project 6 acres in Ponta and we hope to eventually have a ministry there as well. I was unable to visit on my last trip, partially because I didn’t know anyone in Ponta. This winter TDP is going to be doing a small building project in Ponta. I’m not sure what just yet, but a national worker (and possibly another American missionary) will be in Ponta overseeing the project. It looks like TDP will be sending Namorado, it will be nice to have a friend who speaks English (and Portuguese) and knows the area.


We have another building project going on up in Pemba. We are currently trying to purchase a piece of land that will connect our two existing properties. We have a team coming in October to build and if we are able to purchase the land we will be able to enclose all of our land in one fence. This will help a lot with security. The team this fall is building a few new dorms and bathroom. It will allow us to repurpose some of our rooms, so that we have a space for storage, an office and a true common room (meaning no one’s bedroom) for the boys. All are much needed and so this is really exciting! I can’t wait to see the changes!

As always thanks for reading!
Please be praying:
  • For my trip plans
  • Building in October, that the neighbors will sell to us for a reasonable price. Also that we are able to get the permits in time =)
  • Building in Ponta. From filing for permits to finishing paperwork after the build.
  • The house mom’s son is in the hospital. Keep his health in your prayers.


Friday, July 15, 2011

Chicken & Mashed Potatoes

For weeks now I have been thinking it would be fun to cook for the guys and Michael. I think it's because every time I look at Sheema (flour cooked with water) all I think it mashed potatoes… from there I end up thinking about Thanksgiving! My favorite meal is a typical Thanksgiving meal. 

I head to town with Nunu and I'm surprised to find how empty it is. We wonder all over trying to find what I'm looking for. The best part was when we were at this little shop buying chickens I was going over what else we needed out loud… butter, bread, potatoes, etc. I look at a box and it says "Amanda!" Why is it so exciting to find things with our names on it?! I ask Nunu to find out what it is and it's butter! I was planning on buying it no matter what it was, but I even needed it.

I get to the house and start thawing out my birds. The water is off, so I have to go to the well to get water and I have to boil it so I don't get sick. I get everything going, my birds in the oven. The kitchen is 109! I step outside and I feel like I'm walking into air-conditioning! My potatoes only need a little bit longer to be done and I'm gonna have to watch the birds, since the stove setting are just low to high. 

I glance at the stove and realize that the flame under the potatoes had gone out. I try relighting and get nothing. It takes a minute for it to click that the stove is hooked into a gas tank that sits under the sink and it must be out. I search the garage, there are other cans but they all appear to be empty. 

This is something you can't just run out and grab, not to mention Michael isn't home. I tell the guys what is happening and they tell me to cook the stuff on the charcoal stove. I know you can cook a chicken on the grill, but not with the supplies they have here. 

Since I had just put the birds in the oven minutes before the gas ran out, I decide to just bag everything and cook it later. If we can get gas in time… if not I figure I will just let the guys cook it how they like.

I try not to ask much of Michael, because everyone asks the world of Michael and I know it's stressful. So I'm surprised after church on Sunday when he asks if I want to go get gas. I'm actually thrilled because the power had just gone out and I knew we would have to cook the birds today.

We get the gas. I cook the food and Michael, Sumate, Nunu, Santos, Ernesto and I sit around eating in the Kitchen eating chicken and mashed potatoes. We also had corn and bread but those are very normal here. It's fun to be able to share some of my life with them… especially cause they all love chicken! 

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Dreaming of Mozambique!

I'm not exactly sure where the time has gone. Life is finally getting back to normal... or at least my new version of normal.

As far as The Dream Project goes... I've started the process to become a full-time missionary! I'm hoping to head back to Mozambique this December! I'm hoping to help grow the communication between the children in Mozambique and our supporters in the States! I really feel God calling me to this right now and I'm excited to see where it all leads.

I'm guessing if you are reading this you know that I used my blog to keep in touch while I was gone in Mozambique. When I got home my plan was to print them up and bind a few copies to share with people that never made it to this site.

Well to make a really long story short... what started out as my idea for a print out has turned into me self publishing parts of my blogs along with some of my favorite pictures from the trip. I have titled the book Dreaming of Mozambique.

Cover of Dreaming of Mozambique

Dreaming of Mozambique will be selling for $25. The proceeds from this book will help pay and prepare me for my next trip to Mozambique in December! The book is 65 pages and has over 120 colored images. I've gotten really good feed back from my team of proof readers and I'm excited to use this book to help people understand life in Mozambique a little better. 

The Proof Copy!
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Monday, May 16, 2011

Robin Hood and the Market

Every other Monday we buy food for the house that will last 2 weeks. Maria, Joao and Izack are in charge of the bi-weekly outing. I didn't know much about it all I knew was that they went into the big Market a few blocks from downtown and it required getting a taxi for the ride home. 

As we stood waiting for the bus, I remember Maria noticing all of my bed bug bites. Sometimes I forget how different things look on my skin verses theirs. It was also really cute, Maria insisted that I stand in the shade of a electrical pole while we waited in the hot sun. 

We got to the Market and I felt like we were entering a club or something. All these times driving past and I didn't realize that there was more to this place than just the shops along the street. We walked down this narrow alley that was less than 3 feet wide and about 20 feet wide.The walls were lined with DVD's and CD's. Not like what we have in America, rather flat boxes in plastic bags. I didn't get a good look but the covers had more than one movie on them and I didn't get if the actual DVD was in there or if these were just display cards. 

Once we make it though this isle, things open up a little. The isles aren't any wider, but there are booths and items set out on short tables. The tables being so low to the ground make it feel less claustrophobic. Shops all sell different things. Right now I'm looking at underwear toward the right and coffee mugs, plates and other kitchen wares to the left. 

We take off down another narrow isle. Izack and Joao have both told me to follow close, but they keep looking back to make sure I'm still there. We pass wood furniture, I see an iron, and clothes. The sound is chatter with different types of music, but as we turn a corner I hear American music. Loud. We pass some potatoes and turn again. We arrive at a different booth that sells beans, potatoes and onions. Izack and Joao obviously know the guy. 

While they chat, my eyes wonder. We are directly across from a music booth. The music booth consists of CD's and a guy sitting at a computer with HUGE speakers. They are BLASTING the Eminem's song that came out just before I left… I think it's called "Everybody."

The only reason I mention the song is because since the day I've arrived I've noticed Pedro attempting to sing songs that are popular in America. I couldn't put my finger on the first one, like the lyrics were sitting on the tip of my tong. For a few weeks he was singing a Justin Bieber song, but the last few weeks he has been singing "Esteybody" and I've been wondering what song it was, case closed!

I watch as Maria and Joao snap the beans (raw baked beans) in half and examine them before eating them. Who knew this is how you buy beans… I sure didn't. Izack has a laminated list of what to buy, Joao has a calculator out. I'm sure they are figuring what we can afford based on the going price. Potatoes are next and I notice right away the the biggest potatoes are in the front, but that the guy grabs from the back. I think Maria comments, because he pulls some of the small ones out. We buy two grocery bag full of beans and one full of potatoes.

We walk towed the way we came, but go straight rather than turning. This stop onions and garlic. One grocery bag of onions. We keep walking. The boys are carrying all of the items in their hands and Maria is carrying her own purchase on her head, which is the norm in Pemba. 

We wind our way back to the street while passing just about every miscellaneous thing you could ever want. From flip flops to plumbing equipment to mattress. Kinda like Target before they started adding the grocery sections to their stores. Well like an out door Target with a dirt floor, loud music, bamboo "department" dividers and the occasional cat. 

We walk down the street till we come to a big parking anchored by what I think is two stores. The only reason I think that is because there are two doors. Both store have mercy inside and out, it's apparently bulk food. 

I wait with all the food in the parking lot while everybody else goes in. They come out a few minutes later with 3 gallon sized containers of oil, 3 50 pound bags of rice, and a few small boxes. Neither Joao or Izack are great English speakers, but they communicate that they are going to get a taxi and a few more things. Maria grabs broken down boxes for us to sit on and we wait with the food. While we are sitting there a guy comes from behind us and grabs 2 of the bottles of oil. I'm not sure what to think. Do we know him? Is this the cab driver? Maria is putting her shoes on and goes after the guy. I'm still not sure what to think, because she isn't running. Also, now here I am left with ALL this stuff just waiting. 

While I'm waiting a woman leaving the store says something to me in broken English. She says something like, "Not safe for you and all this food, trouble." Whatever she said I remember feeling like she was implying that I was asking for trouble, almost inviting it. 

The thing that gets me the most about this is I feel like lots of people have that Robin Hood mentality. I'm white, therefore I must be rich, so stealing from me because you are poor is okay. Don't get me wrong theft is an issue here, but as I stand there in that parking lot I wonder… "did this guy steal from us because I'm here." Did he look at me and assume that I could just buy more oil. The oil cost 300 MZN, which is about $9.60. Sure I could have spent $20 to replace what was taken, but I didn't bring money here to replace stolen goods. I decide to buy one oil. As if it was my way of taking some sort of stand and showing that white people can't fix everything. Probably crazy thinking, it's not like the guy was even there to watch me not buy 2 things of oil.

Once the shopping was done, my plan was to go to the internet place. I thought we were going to the middle of town, so it all made sense to me. Well I didn't realize that we were going to a market just before town. It wasn't a far walk and it was broad daylight. I think I would have been fine walking, but the boys insisted that I didn't. Joao and I took a cab to the internet place, Joao got out of the car and walked me the 15 feet to the door. I tell you these boys are amazing. I never have to ask about things. They all just take care of me as if I'm the child in need. 

One thing about all of these boys is they do have so much respect for their elders. You can tell by how they speak to people. They always add either "Mano" or "Mana" to the beginning of the Missionaries and workers names. I'm Mana Amanda or there is Mano Sumate, Mano Michael and so on. The other thing I've noticed is that when an adult shows up and there are no chairs the kids will automatically get up and give the adult their chair or go find one for them to sit on. 

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Pass the Kleenex...

Ok so here we go again. I guess I should mention that I will do my best to keep things in chronological order, but when I stopped blogging I wasn't journaling either. Also it is easier for me to recap the story as if I was there, so that is what I will do.

Game on...

As if my little buddy Juma Pequeno doesn't have enough to deal with by being small for his age from malnutrition and having AIDS/HIV, the poor kids gets sick a lot. This time he has a cough and runny nose. I find myself in all these strange situations. I know what to do in America, but just cause it's what we would do doesn't mean it's what I should do here. When his nose is running do I wipe it? What do I wipe it with, the don't have kleenex. When he is coughing while he is trying to sleep should I do something, should I wake someone up, will he just fall back asleep? Before I am even done having the conversation in my head he does fall back asleep. 

I decide not to do much, but only to ask Juma P to cover his mouth when he is coughing. Every time he coughs I say his name and cough using my hand to cover my mouth. I realize that I probably should have used my elbow, but decide to just be consistent. He is pretty good about keeping his mouth covered, but like all children he needs constant reminding. One day Juma P and Helder were standing right in front of me watching me work on something and Juma P starts coughing. At that moment I know I will too have a cough and sure enough a few days later I am officially sick.  

Apparently something is going around Pemba and so it's not just me and Juma P. Now that I'm sick though it really get's me thinking. In a week or so I go though 8 travel packages of kleenex. They are 3 ply and so when I notice how fast I'm going through the beautiful, soft, luxurious kleenex; I start pulling the pieces apart and using either 1 or 2 ply(?) at at time. Sure I have toilet paper but I think I could blow a hole though it from across the room. I'm sure it's similar to what you have to use with a septic here in the US but my guess is it's thinner. For those of you who don't know what I'm talking about, imagine really natural looking recycled paper. Then look at how thick it is and cut it in half.... so basically really really thin recycled paper.

So anyways, all this nose blowing has me wondering what everyone else is using to blow their nose? Ask and you shall receive as soon as I started wondering I got my answer. WARNING THIS IS GROSS… I saw a guy blow the nastiest snot rocket (when you push one side of your nose closed and blow with all of your might to get everything out), I mean yuck! All snot rockets are nasty, but this was nasty based on quantity... ugh there was just so much snot!

I don't think I made a face when I saw the snot rocket, but I definitely though YUCK! No one else even flinched, it's times like these I wonder am I thinking like this cause I'm a girl or because I'm American? Do the girls here blow snot rockets in public? Aah the life one lives when surrounded by males 24 hours a day 7 days a week for 4 weeks (cause I had Julie for the first 3). Sometimes the norm here is just so strange to me. I even thought should I offer these guys kleenex or some toilet paper, but they probably would have put it in there pocket and saved it for the bathroom and thought I was nuts for suggesting that  they blow there nose in it. I mean snot rockets are free?! So in a town where a days wage is $3.20 a little more than some boxes of kleenex, you do the math.

The other really funny thing about all of this is that with ALL of the medicine I brought… I didn't bring one thing for a cough. Another one of those little lessons that any planner hates learning. It's humbling knowing that I will never be able to prepare for everything, at some point I just have to be ready to hand it over to the Lord… even the little things like having a nasty cough in the middle of Africa. But man what a blessing the day I found Halls cough drops in one of the little grocery stores. It really is the little things here in Pemba... 3 ply kleenex and a package of orange flavored cough drops.

Juma P these were taken before his cold set in.

Juma P and Amido... they sure love posing for the camera!

Monday, April 11, 2011

Let the debriefing begin...

For those of you who haven't heard... I'm back in Detroit.

I'm not done blogging about my trip, but I just couldn't bring myself to spend any more time in front of my computer while I was there. I will try to finish writing the last 2 weeks of blogs, but my computer either has a nasty virus or the hard drive is about to crash. Yes all of my pictures are on there =( They think they will be able to transfer them over, but that requires me getting a new laptop... which I don't exactly have the money for after my little adventure!

All this to say I'm home and more stories and pictures about my trip will be coming soon!

I would appericate your prayers while I try to face the reality of being back in the US and what life looks like now. It is shocking for many reasons, but the biggest is being alone for the first time in 2 months and dealing with the silence. Sure I listen to music, read and watch tv, but the noise of the House in Mozambique has become my norm. 12 hours of a keyboard playing 5 feet from my door, constant knocking on my door at all hours of the day to ask life threatening question like "can I use your soccer ball?", kids screaming, laughing, crying, asking for hugs, wanting to sit on my lap, wondering if I'm going to the beach the list goes on, but that is what I miss.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

A day in the life...

Since getting here I have been meaning to write about what a day is like for the boys. So here is my best attempt at doing that.
On weekdays the boys are up no later than 5am, but sometimes as early as 4am. They start there day off with a time of singing and prayer. After that they all have chores. They sweep the yard, their rooms, do any dishes left over from the night before and do their laundry. For breakfast they eat bread and drink tea.
School here operates in half days. Some kids go from 7am till noon and others go from noon to 5pm. The kids that aren’t in school get tutored at least two days a week by some of the workers or even the older children. All the kids eat lunch at the center, either before or after school. Lunch is usually beans and rice.
The music teacher, Daniel, comes a few days a week to teach the kids to play the piano and the guitar. They all have time slots and get lessons each week and then practice when the keyboard isn’t in use. Some days the keyboard is played from sunrise to sunset.
The art teacher, Zito, comes two days a week and helps the kids make cards and necklaces. It is amazing watching the kids and Zito create the cards with such simple tools.
Dinner is usually sometime between 5 and 6pm. Dinner is usually a starch and a protein or salad (if a large serving of protein was served at lunch). The starches are rice, spaghetti or sheema. I just found out that sheema is basically flour cooked over the stove with water, no wonder it tastes like nothing. The protein varies each day from beans, fish, or goat meat. Salad is cabbage and cucumbers and sometimes a banana or other seasonal fruit.
At 7pm the boys all gather to talk over their day. They all sit in a circle and one of the Maputo guys goes around asking them to share about their day. They usually say things like “my day was good, I went to school.” Sometimes they share about how something bad happened to them or a funny story. Last night Latino shared that on his way to school his pants split open and riding his bike made the hole get bigger and bigger. He ended up stopping to ask a taylor to fix his pants. He explained to the man that he didn’t have any money but wouldn’t be able to go to school with the hole in his pants. The man fixed his pants while Latino waited in his underwear… everybody got a good laugh out of that story.

The kids start making their way to bed around 8 and lights go out at 9. All the boys share one shower and so there is usually a line for that and others try to do more laundry.
On Friday night the kids get to watch a movie. They have tv in the common room and a DVD/VHS player. They mainly watch movies in English and they talk though the whole thing, but they love to laugh at the funny parts. The tv is locked up during the week and only gets brought out for the 3 or so hours of watching. Bedtime is extended to lights out at 10pm and the kids get to sleep in until 6am on the weekend.

Depending on who is around is what shapes the weekend. When Julie was here the kids went to IRIS ministries for church in the morning and then we all went to the beach in the afternoon. Now that Michael is here the kids have the option to attend the church of their choice but we also have service at the house.

Hopefully I'll have more pictures next week, but I didn't realize that I wouldn't be able to get the ones I took last week off of my camera...
 
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