Thursday, April 25, 2013

A Hard Days Work...

For those of you who wonder, the answer is yes... Murphy’s Law does apply in Moz. Most days I think it applies to all aspects of life. The number of head slaps, big sighs, and so on are to great to count each day. Between no power, no water, broken tools and miscommunication... Murphy is always just around the corner!

A few weeks ago, we were doing some work on our Kitchen. We had to order a shipment of sand. It comes on the back of a truck and they dump it in your yard. It’s actually kind of nice.

This is all around the time of the HUGE rain storm. It severely damaged our road and kept us from being able to drive for a few days till we could fill in some of what was washed away.

Well Saturday morning, I make my way from our house to the other. I’m in the middle of a tiling project and it’s taking me forever to finish. I see a strange man approach, I smile, say Hi, call for our staff and keep walking.

Generally, speaking to men I don’t know goes one of 5 ways;
  1. In Portuguese he says, he says hello, I say hi. He says how are you, I say I’m good. Then he rambles off something that I don’t understand. I say I only speak a little Portuguese. He say Oh English (Ohhhh Englace). Yes English. He speaks more Portuguese. I smile and laugh and say Sorry I don’t understand, I speak very very little Portuguese. He speaks again. I say okay bye and nice as possible with a big smile on my face. He says bye. (This has happened more times than I can count. Once I had a kid come translate for me because I couldn’t get the guy to leave me alone. The man was asking me if I had a female friend his age (about 40) in America. He wanted me to bring this friend to marry him, so she could work on his farm. He was extremely animated and it was a funny conversation! Especially once I found out the context! Any takers????)
  2. Repeat #1 but in Macuwa... but harder laughing, but not at the man. But because I have no clue beyond. Hi, how are you. I’m fine. And the fact that I’m honored that they think I would understand. Maybe Rosetta Stone make a Macuwa version =)
  3. Men come at me with open hands, looking for money. The need is so great here that Nunu I generally only give money to people we know. One man signed to me that he was hungry with a cigarette hanging from his mouth. Hum.
  4. They want me to buy something from them. Usually something I don’t need at a price I would never pay. One man was selling a gold chain? He was so convinced I needed it he came back twice... little does he know I prefer silver! (The second time he came back, he asked Calmo for me. Calmo knocked so soft on my door the only reason I heard is because I was right there. I asked him later if the reason he knocked so soft was so I wouldn’t answer the door... he said yes. Love when they feel protective of me!)
  5. They want my phone number... So they “can practice their English.” This one is the hardest as I understand them and they me and I have to be persistent. No. No it’s not good. No I’m married. No. No. I’m leaving in a few days. No. No. No.

Turns out he is here to deliver the sand but because the road is bad and they can’t turn the corner, he wants to know where to put the sand. I tell our staff, just have him dump it we can bring it all over in the wheelbarrow. Not a big deal.

They want me to come and point to the spot on the ground where it should be dumped. I go. I point. They say no, it’s not good in the grass. I ask our staff to speak to the neighbors who have a big open spot and ask can we put the sand in their yard. Yes they say it’s fine. It was really easy. The sand gets dumped.

While some of our older kids don’t necessarily love the idea of work... I’ve discovered that the younger ones who generally get overlook... LOVE to work. They love shovels. They love using the wheelbarrow. We usually don’t even have to ask them for help. Get one person started and the rest just jump in. Sometimes they even argue over who gets to do the shoveling, or get upset when someone isn’t shoveling enough.

Look at the smile on Mack's face! What a good attitude!
Even with while carrying a heavy bucket Mack is still smiling!

One of my favorite pics of the day. Such a handsome face!

I go to grad the wheelbarrow. It’s broken.

The thing that holds the tire to the base broke last night. Ah! I find another broken wheelbarrow, who has no tire. I take the wheel from one and put it on the other.

And off we go! We find some buckets and eventually some heavy rice sacks and start shoveling. Little did we realize that the “new” wheelbarrow had more than just a broken tire. It was missing the stands that keep you from tipping sideways.

House Mom, Maria in here 60's and in
a dress is hard at work! And our staff member
Ernesto has mastered the unstable wheelbarrow.
Gotta love TEAMWORK!!!
So picture this kids filling a wheelbarrow full of sand. And then pushing with all of their might through a few soft sandy spots of road, turning a corner where the gound dips down and back up and then insisting to push the wheel barrow down the narrow path. Needless to say we dropped a few loads!

Once the older kids saw the challenge, they got interested. It became a contest. Who can get the sand from one pile to the other the fastest without tipping over the wheelbarrow?

These kids are working hard and I’m so thankful they have all stepped up. I decide to make them something to drink... like Tang. By the time I’m done. I think about 4 hours have passed and this is all I’ve done today. Sand, sand and more sand. No tiles. No wonder everything takes so long.  

Anyways as always the delay is worth it. Every annoying thing, every time Murphy’s Law makes it’s appearance, every time I could feel defeat... there is usually something that melts my heart, touches my soul or just reminds me that this is exactly where God has called me.

Today it was watching one of my Itty Bitties, Eddie, walk around the corner with a small sack on his head. Sure there wasn’t much in it, but he was doing what he could and to me it meant a lot.

Cue melting heart. 

Abracos leading Eddie.
I love seeing little Eddie there with his bag. And seeing
Salena shoveling the dirt. Talk about a group effort!

It reminds me of having faith like a child. As adults we are quick to question things, say we aren’t good enough there is nothing I can do. As children we pick up a small sack and join in and never feel a hint of embarrassment that our sack is small than the next guys.
Maybe that is why I love working with children. They are capable of the most uninhibited faith.

Funny as I write this, I’m listening to a mix on my iPod, title “Chillin.” It’s a bit of everything Christian and Non-Christian music. I just moved out to the Kitchen and so the sound is faint, but what song is on... Jars of Clay, Like a Child.

They say that I can move the mountains
And send them falling to the sea
They say that I can walk on water
If I would follow and believe
With faith like a child

Prayer Requests:
-       Water. We have basically been without running water for 4 weeks. At first it was on our end, as a screw was stuck in our water pump. Then we had water for 2 days and then we have been out again.
-       New employees. We are training some new employees right now. So far so good, but I just found out the guy who has the most experience has another job. He works on a boat 15 days of the month and then is off 15 days. Prayers that I will find peace knowing that the Lord has a plan, even if it isn’t mine =)








Thursday, April 11, 2013

I'm Touched...


I’m not even sure how to begin describing how I feel. I’m not sure if I keep repeating myself, but I guess it just drives the point home.

I honestly am in awe of the kiddos I get to be around each day. I’m in awe of our time together. How much they have opened themselves to me. I feel such a blessing from these relationships; I struggle to find the words. But my heart melts each day and each step that we grow.

Nick hugging my leg. I still shake my head
at how comfortable the itty bitties are with me!
Our best attempt at a group shot!
Not only have I watched but over the last year, I’ve gotten to experience as each barrier is broken. I’ve gotten to see the look into a few children’s faces as they have decided what is safe and what is okay. We have moved from tears on sight, to joyous laughter as they chant my name and seek high-fives or thumbs up.
Group hug... aka Amanda's a human kleenex! 

What I feel can only be described as a magnetic pull. It is greatest with Eddie.

Eddie beaming with a bird on his shoulder.
Love Nick's face in the yellow!
His smile is permanently etched in my mind. The twinkle in his eye. The contrast between his smooth chocolate skin and square white teeth. 

The way he makes noises and points at something. My favorite is when he says, “Manda” in his little voice and then he pulls his hand within an inch of his face to point a relaxed finger at something. As if he is lining his finger up to what he is pointing at. 

Eddie had a peice of sand stuck to the edge of his bottom
eye lid. I couldn't blow it out, but he trusted me enough
to get it with my finger. Remember 90% of our
communication is non-verbal. 
The concern that is evident in the touch of such a little hand. One day he found a little red dot on my skin. He picked at it and desperately tried to get rid of it. But his touch was so gentle.

Eddie has no concern for dirt. He literally rolls around in it for hours. He works to do a headstand, which the older boys are skilled at. He usually just stands with both his head and feet on the ground. 

Literally covered in sand, Eddie will come by me. After a quick high-five and smile, he will notice a small section of my leg or arm with some sand. With a delicate touch, he takes care to brush all of the sand off me.

This is the moment I realized Eddie was dusting sand from
my leg. I was so touched by his gesture.

Action shot =)
The day that Eddie and I built sand huts, using half of a coconut. He watched me pack the wet sand in and then noticed another boy hitting a rock against the coconut to get nice little mounds. The fact that for each mound, he would run limbs flailing to go get another rock.

What did I do to deserve so many precious memories of such beautiful little children?

I’ve been saying it a lot lately, but I truly am blessed!

Prayer Request & Praises!
-       On Thursday, Nunu had his interview to obtain a visa to the States and he was approved! We are SO thankful! Praise the Lord!
-       There are so many great things about Nunu getting his visa, but the one I’m thinking about most is that he gets to come home from the capital! He will be traveling by bus on Saturday and Sunday (April 13 & 14). Prayers for safe travel,  good driving and that Nunu can be as comfortable as possible on the 35 – 45 hour ride!
-       Now with Nunu’s visa we can begin making travel arrangements to come to the States. This year has been a big leap of faith as we have only raised about 45% of our income budget for the year. Day to day in Moz, it doesn’t affect us to much... that is until we need to spend over $3,000 on flights. The Lord has already shown us favor, as when I last checked in February flights were around $4,000! My visa is up June 15th, ideally we would purchase 6 weeks or more out. Anyways, prayers that the flights stay down long enough for us to get the funds together and raise any additional support we might need.
-       As always, health. I have been sick again for the last 2 weeks. I’m about 98% better, but for about 3 days all I did was blow my nose and cough. While my itty bitties are a huge blessing, they also don’t really get germs. Runny noses for them are the norm and just last week one of them point blank sneezed on the side of my neck and face. The next 2 months will be full and it would be nice to have the energy to get things accomplished!
-       We will be bringing on some new staff and doing some moving around over the next few weeks. We have 2 staff members who will be attending DTS (Discipleship Training through Youth with a Mission) and we are just getting more organized. Prayers that the process comes together and that new staff are a good fit.
-       Praise! I’m not sure how to explain but I just really feel like such a variety of my gifts are being used. Sickness and all I feel like we have been really productive over the last month or so (hence the lack of blogs!).
-       Praise! For the sense of community we have really started developing. Prayers that the relationships keep coming and building, as it really has been so good for me to have some sense of a life outside the Center walls.

Thanks as always for reading, commenting and praying. It means so much to me that so many of you follow our lives.

With love,
Amanda

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